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the key that helped me tune into my body and unlock my inner wisdom

Hello, everyone. Are you constantly feeling disconnected and overwhelmed in our hyper-digitalized age?

In my last post, I delved into the transformative power of journaling and free writing as tools for uncovering our deepest desires and emotions.

Today, I’m excited to share another piece of wisdom I’ve been exploring: the practice of body scanning.

Disconnect from the Body

We live in a hyper-digitalized and mind-centric age, engrossed in screens, to-do lists, and the perpetual hustle to achieve more and plan our next move.

However, in this pursuit, we overlook the valuable cues our bodies send us.

Pause and consider this.

Our emotions are not these abstract concepts floating in our heads.

They’re visceral experiences that manifest in the body.

Ignoring these experiences makes it as if you’re driving through life with a blindfold on.

This approach hampers your ability to identify and process feelings, making you less in tune with your energy and resource limitations.

Ignoring these cues, you miss the indicators that signal your need for rest or recovery.

The result?

You might find yourself constantly tired, devoid of joy, and experiencing a decline in your performance and physical well-being.

My Journey

I know this because I’ve been there. I’ve spent years focusing on self-improvement, building my career, relationships and honing my nutrition and fitness.

Even though I had achieved various milestones, I often felt emotionally unfulfilled, unable to savour my victories or feel love deeply.

Despite being trapped in a perpetual “doing mode,” I still felt I hadn’t accomplished enough.

Journaling helped, as did therapy and deep conversations with loved ones.

But the real turning point was when I began listening to my body through the practice of body scanning. It became a powerful tool for cultivating self-compassion and mindfulness.

I connected with my emotions and learned to harness my body’s signals to plan my activities more effectively. I began to structure my tasks and responsibilities according to my energy levels.

This way, I could accomplish more while feeling fulfilled rather than just being busy.

It also empowered me to recognise when I needed active recovery. I learned when to embrace restorative practices to recharge, enhancing my overall well-being and performance.

(The topic of active recovery merits its in-depth exploration on a different occasion.)

The How-To: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Body Scanning

1. Choose a Quiet Space

Select a comfortable, quiet spot to sit or lie down without any disturbances.

2. Take Deep Breaths

Inhale deeply, and then exhale at a pace that’s twice as long as your inhalation. Repeat this several times to centre yourself.

3. Focus on Your Heartbeat

Place a hand over your heart and feel its rhythm. If you find it challenging, don’t worry — this improves with practice.

4. Scan Your Body

While focusing on your heartbeat, let your attention travel to different body parts. Recognise any tension, discomfort, or even ease that you feel.

5. Acknowledge and Release

As you identify the emotions or sensations, don’t judge. Acknowledge and imagine releasing them as you exhale.

6. Reflect and Journal

After completing your body scan, jotting down your discoveries can help you craft a meaningful emotional history to revisit and reflect upon.

Why this matters

Body scanning is more than a relaxation tool in an increasingly mental and digital world.

It’s a skill that can drastically improve your quality of life.

It can improve your health, influence your interactions within relationships, and contribute to your success in achieving your dreams and plans.

Final Thoughts

Thank you for reading! If you found this article helpful, don’t forget to hit the clap button, share it with your friends, and leave your thoughts in the comments below or message me directly. Together, we can foster a culture where curiosity guides us and our communities inspire us to grow.